I am SUCH a delicate flower its ridiculous.
There I was tootling along with a smile on my face, loving my new job, revelling in how well I was coping with 'stuff'. Then I get tripped up by my own sensitivity. Ok so the next day it was all fine, in fact 2 different actions by my boss made me realise that to him it was only a minor blip, yet to me it was huge.
Seriously, I need to toughen up!
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Seen at one of my favourite advice sites - Smart at Love.
As a matter of fact, whether it's the early stages of dating, or the beginning of a relationship, things between you seem to be going along rather nicely.
Anyway...that's what you think.
The next moment - presto chango - he's GONE! No more contact. No explanation.
Now that he's disappeared, your private hell has just begun. Trying to figure out what went wrong. Questioning your perception of what you two shared. Dealing with a range of reactions, from denial to anger to sadness.
And you want to DO something, rather than feeling so dumped and powerless.
